Comment #23027

Blog: Weekly Update
Din65
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Din65 28 United States ENTP 14C
Well, because despite knowing nothing about you outside of this site, I do know about the type of emotions you are describing. You made it very clear you aren't looking for advice, but you are definitely sounding like you are stuck in a position you are not going to fix by yourself. More dangerous, you are not going to solve anything by searching for romance right now, and good friendships take time to build, yet you need help now you say you aren't getting, and I feel bad for you. "It won't just go away unless I find someone." comes across as you are close to giving up on yourself, and that would be a real tragedy.
Pseudolonewolf
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"My comment was received badly? I know! I'll write more of the same! That'll help!"
Din65
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Din65 28 United States ENTP 14C
Disclaimer: this is a question, not an accusation.

Have you considered that you are distancing yourself from people for either of the following reasons?
*) You find self-esteem in coping without help, especially if it makes you feel different
*) You find security in people expressing concern after you ask them to leave you alone

My delivery is blunt, but I ask out of concern. How seriously have you explored the possibility that the things that are making you unhappy are something you actually desire? There are many reasons people end up in such loops. I again hope you can find the support you need (not necessarily want), because you are a good person who deserves to be happy.

You have given me joy through your art; words of encouragement through this site are the only way I know how to repay you.