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Blog: Weekly Update

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Din65 28 United States ENTP 14C
Disclaimer: this is a question, not an accusation.

Have you considered that you are distancing yourself from people for either of the following reasons?
*) You find self-esteem in coping without help, especially if it makes you feel different
*) You find security in people expressing concern after you ask them to leave you alone

My delivery is blunt, but I ask out of concern. How seriously have you explored the possibility that the things that are making you unhappy are something you actually desire? There are many reasons people end up in such loops. I again hope you can find the support you need (not necessarily want), because you are a good person who deserves to be happy.

You have given me joy through your art; words of encouragement through this site are the only way I know how to repay you.